Imagine you’re at a party. It’s busy, with lots of different conversations bubbling away in pockets of the room.
The hostess is doing a bang-up job of introducing people with little tidbits of information. “This is Bob,” she says. “He works in finance and likes rugby. Bob, this is Sarah, she likes rugby too and works in London for a tech startup.” Off go Bob and Sarah, talking about England’s recent win over Australia, how lovely the party is and the best way to build a monthly forecast.
There are discussions like this happening all over, ranging from the insightful and hilarious to the lowbrow and daft. Now, imagine you get stuck talking to someone who only wants to talk about his recent promotion, how much money he makes, his fashion collection and what car he’s going to buy next. All this person can talk about is himself. He’s not listening to a word you’re saying, not asking about your interests, and not contributing to any of the other conversations happening around him. If you’re not careful, that could be you on social media.